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Why I Am Not A Fan of Auto Bill Pay

January 21, 2016 by Sarah

There’s nothing wrong with using the auto bill pay service at your local bank, but I just can’t seem to get on board.  Here are some of my reasons why.

At the beginning of the month, after we’ve created our budget and I’ve paid the bills, I make my trip through the drive thru at our bank to withdraw our cash for the month.  I know, we are “old school,” but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

For a while, the teller asked me every single month whether I was interested in auto bill pay.  Each time, I politely told them that I’d think about it.  I wasn’t interested, but I wanted to be nice.  I understand that many of you reading may be completely sold on it, but I’ve realized that I’m just not a fan.

1.  I decide when to pay the bills

Our budget is tight.  We plan out every single dollar, so there’s no “fluff” in case a direct deposit doesn’t go through like it should.  (We have our “slush fund” and emergency fund, but no extra in our actual monthly budget).  If I set up automatic bill pay, I’d have to check our account every single day, just to make sure that nothing went wrong with all the deposits and payments.

I pay bills at the very beginning of the month.  Sometimes I wait for another paycheck to trickle in to pay the ones due at the end of the month, so I decide when those payments are made.

2.  I only trust us with our money

I don’t want to give a bank that sort of control over our money and our payments.  Maybe I’m too paranoid, but I don’t trust a bank as much as I trust us.  We can certainly make mistakes and I completely understand that not choosing auto bill pay could open us up to the possibility of a late payment, but it’s a risk I’m willing to take.

3.  I like receiving paper bills

I am also paper girl.  I like to receive paper bills and to be able to file them away.  Even though bills can be accessed online, I like to review the paper copies for myself.  It forces me to keep tabs on our expenses and I’ve often realized mistakes by doing this.  If I were to sign up for automatic bill pay, I would be less likely to scrutinize each statement that comes through.  I don’t keep paper copies forever, but it’s been nice to access past statements quickly and easily in our file cabinet.

4.  It might tempt us to be lazy with our finances

Although sitting down and paying bills manually is work, it forces us to keep tabs on our finances.  Since bills aren’t paid automatically, we have to keep track of them.  This keeps us very involved in the cash flow process.  We work hard to create a budget and I don’t want for the execution of our budget to become automated.

5.  It dulls some of the pain of bill paying (which might not be a good thing)

This one might not make much sense, but hang with me while I try to explain.  I don’t like pain…really, I don’t.  But, there is something about experiencing a little bit of the pain of bill paying that keeps us much more aware of our spending.  I have a feeling that we would become a little numb to the bill paying process if it were automated.  By writing out the checks myself or paying the bill online directly to the company, it keeps that pain or feeling fresh in my mind.  I believe that helps me to not overspend.

 

I know that for every reason I listed, there will be another of why auto bill pay is so wonderful.  It’s okay – different strokes for different folks!  I pay most of our bills online through the company websites to save on checks and postage.  This works great for us at this point, so we’re sticking with it.

Do you use auto bill pay?  Why or why not?

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  1. Literary Winner says

    April 25, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    Yes! I feel much the way you do. I also don't trust the companies to not overcharge me accidentally. This way I know how much money is going out the door each month, and I'm in control of it.

    • steddins@hotmail.com says

      April 30, 2016 at 11:38 pm

      Exactly! Maybe I'm a control freak, but it's been good for us! 🙂

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